Why is it so hard to be honest to someone in stead of avoiding the real truth, ignoring or avoiding them only makes you look bad and they will never believe anything you might have told them. In the end your the one that loses not them.
"Heavenly Father, Thank you for the gift of marriage. Lord, I ask you to fill my heart and thoughts with your perfect love. Help me to encourage and love my husband in ways that are pleasing to You. Thank you for the man that I call my husband.