I'm still confused about my family ; my mom told me that someone I call my aunt is so far removed that I could legally marry them<< in my family if you are below a certain age you're a cousin and above that age an aunt/ uncle
This is perfect. You need to know the other side before you make an assumption. I mean you can and say that you don't know the full story so you can't be for sure. that's what I do if I don't know the whole thing <--- This is so beautiful and amazing.