I have a fake people radar.they are just too easy to figure out. Stop trying desperately to appear to be something you aren't, to project an image that doesn't exist, and just be real and honest instead - otherwise you just end up embarrassing yourself.
You are not your body. You are not your name- and you are not your hands. These are all things that we have. You are a soul, a spiritual being, living in a physical body, and been gifted with an intellect.