"I write because I don't know what I think until I read what I say." -Flannery O'Connor This is sometimes the first advice they give in writing classes. Write first to learn your thoughts, refine, rewrite.
I especially like the last part - about how we can derail any story you are trying to tell with our awkward sister language. (sidenote: Do not confuse for fandom language. That is a mystery of its own)
Hey heres a shoutout to my sister! The quote says it all--i really dont know how. I cant even imagine life without you. You are crazy and weird, but i love you and ur my best friend in the whole wide world. I love you, sista!