Time-In instead of a Time-out is a good way to calm a child without spanking or doing other disciplinary options. this can work on may ages. It is a good way to show the children to behave I could see myself sing this option instead of others.
Behavior Chart: Begin at "Good Job" every day. If a child is on any green space at the end of the day they get 5 pom poms in their jar. When the jar is full the child gets their pre-chosen reward (treat, prize, night out with mom or dad, etc.