What it comes down to is your actions in the end. As the saying goes actions speak louder than words. We can make careful plans if needed to to end relationships we do not wish to stay in. Start making plans for the life you want.
I LOVE this quote. Most important thing for a woman to do. Have your happiness, life and money together. Know that if you were to be left alone today you would be alright. Always put yourself first. Always.
This explains any relationship wher one of the two are always feeling alone, blamed or is always giving and never bring surprised by the other. Always having to chase or apologize. Move on. So many people waste their lives on selfish idiots.