When my wedding comes around, yes- it's my day. But, I want my bridesmaids to look amazing too! It seems like this waterfall style on the bridesmaids dresses works and is flattering for everybody, which is awesome.
You'll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine. Maybe adding a daily habit of more love with your child might make a positive change for both of you.