The older I get, ;the more I realize the value of privacy, of cultivating your circle and only letting certain people in. You can be open, honest, and real while still understanding not everyone deserves a seat at the table of your life.
You will never truly understand the struggles of another person. Remember to realize how hard your own struggles are for you. The other guy feels the same way. We are all trying to make our way in this world so make it easy on everyone and don't judge.
The bets kind of people are the ones that come into your life, and make you see the sun where you once saw clouds. The people that believe in you so much, you start to believe in you too, simply for being you. The once in a lifetime kind of people.
This is how you lose her. You lose her for every second you make her feel less and less of the beauty that she is. When you make her feel cherished. When you make her feel that you are fleeting. She wants you to stay.