There will always be things in life that are beyond our control. If we tie our happiness to specific circumstances and rigid outcomes then whatever we can't control becomes a source of stress and other unpleasant emotions.
Stop fighting against yourself. Panic & frustration solves nothing. Take time to breathe, relax & then a solution will come to you without struggle. ~Kim Michele Ingram, Author In Search of the Secret Sanctuary. An Award-Winning Scottish Fairytale.