I personally don't need anything growing there and taking up my comfort zone space. My comfort zone is for me to take shelter and find inner peace. If I want something to grow, I go to my secret garden. Lots of freedom and space for things to grow there.
Actually, I can do everything you said I couldn't, be everything you said I wouldn't. I will break through those negative opinions and continue making my life amazing! --- so True, I give a sh*t about your opinions on what I can and especially cannot do!