The problem with making assumptions is that we believe they are the truth. We make an assumption. We misunderstand. We take it personally. Then we react by sending emotional poison with our word. This creates a whole big drama for nothing.
I’m mistaken for a flirt when I’m friendly. I’m mistaken for being mean when I’m honest. I’m mistaken for sad when I want to be alone. I’m mistaken for shy when I’m quiet. Quit assuming and get to know me.
Keep your mouth shut in other people's circumstances and don't accuse. Only an idiot gets themselves involved in other people's issues. Don't make accusations when you don't witness. Just because someone tells you something, doesn't make it true.
Assumption & lack of communication are the number one relationship killers. We all perceive differently. We've lived different lives, we have different views. Understand that before getting angry at someone for not believing what you believe.