The people in your life should be a source of reducing stress, not causing more of it.so you have to make hard decisions to separate those people from your life. Especially when they don't accept your children- their grandchildren!
For two-plus hours, I had to look at him while he yelled at me for spending all of his money and him asking me where it went, after I gave him proof in the form of a store receipt. Yes, I have known a controlling person.
Amen "controllers, abusers and manipulative people don't question themselves. they don't ask themselves if the problem is them. they always say the problem is SOMEONE else" - so true for this narcissist who puts people on back burners!