She was a forgiver her heart was so larg she didnt know how to give up on peopl because she always believed the good in those she loved it was until she was walked on so many times she had no choice but to let go of those who burned holes in her heart.
Narcissist disregard for others goes far beyond simply not caring very much about them to purposely wanting to hurt, exploit, manipulate, and that makes them capable of the most serious kinds of relational abuse.
Toxic people will hurt you and then try to make you feel bad that you are mad or hurt or upset. It's known as blame shifting. Instead of taking accountability for their own actions, they blame others for having feelings. Abusive people do this
I love people who are loving, but from a distance, so other family members won't involve them in a dispute. Because some members act like people have to choose a side or religion over a member of the family.