It always comes back to 3 things when seeking true Santosha (contentment, happiness, wholeness) Listening to your inner voice (soul). Having the courage to live fearlessly (even though every part of your subtle and physical body is trembling).
Controlling assholes are for weak, desperate bitches. A woman of true worth waits for the man of her dreams, she doesn't settle, she doesn't pretend, and she doesn't trade her wings for status ✌- it's exactly what I'm looking for.
I will always be a free spirit, and honestly I think it frightens people who are so caught up in the construct of society. Not all "rules, labeling and regulations" are good for the spirit, especially a free one.