Of course it hurts when you find out it was all a lie and I was just a single piece of his "puzzle" and nothing more. I'm not crazy or "psycho" it's the same term used for all of us when we figure out the truth.
Children of Narcissistic parents are perfect sources of supply. They are no better thought of, they come in handy when supply is scarce and just like everyone in close proximity to the Narcissist, they are idealized, manipulated and stonewalled when.
Silence in the Face of Evil - Blind-sided By 2 Narcopaths To maintain the status quo of silence is an unconscionable act of complicity in the destruction of another family is a given based on past performance.
So true an it's sad to know that my husbands child will always hate us because his mother decided to keep him from his father. Only let us see him when it was convenient for her an all she cared about was our money we gave for child support. So sad