It's not about finding someone who won't fight with you or make you sad. It is about finding the person who will be standing there wiping the tears away, holding you in their arms after a fight. The one who will never leave, no matter how hard it gets.
When you are together and love someone you only get one umbrella to share, you have to weather the storm together, to talk, to stay close. If you don't you get swept away by the storm and separated.- I thought this was beautiful.
Relationships are hard however, God's love is a perfect example to us. It never gives up no matter what we do. This bible verse is not only a reminder of how to love others but also of how God loves us.
Psychopaths generate pity plays for many reasons. But it is especially dangerous because they use the poor me routine to manipulate their targets into forgiving them and giving them chance after chance after chance, thus perpetuating the cycle of abuse.