I just want to add that gender preferences are a thing with pansexuals as well. I'm pansexual and I generally find myself being attracted to girls more often than any other gender. So it's not a complete disregard for gender.
If the only time you talk about male rape survivors is when you are interrupting women and non-binary people talking about sexual assault statistics and their own experiences, don't pretend you give a shit about male rape survivors.
This is a powerful way of thinking about this (& perhaps helping men understand it better). Previous pinner commented: So when it's a man's fear, it's rational, but when it's a woman's fear, it's nothing to worry about.
The Great Divide by Justin Hubbell. I love this so much because I'm super gay and everyone need to read this I think I might show it to my parents to show them that me being gay isn't a bad thing and thats just an outdated law of society