I just want to add that gender preferences are a thing with pansexuals as well. I'm pansexual and I generally find myself being attracted to girls more often than any other gender. So it's not a complete disregard for gender.
An Open Letter: Why is What's in My Pants so Interesting?
The Great Divide by Justin Hubbell. I love this so much because I'm super gay and everyone need to read this I think I might show it to my parents to show them that me being gay isn't a bad thing and thats just an outdated law of society