Been saying this for years, and it is absolutely true. I can finally smile again and sleep at night, because I'm not worrying about where I stand with someone who refused to let me go and was too chickensh*t to be honest with himself or me.
I love people. I value what each person offers & how God made them. And each of us have a choice who we share this life with. For me, keep the "flow of traffic" because loving others with the love God gave to me is my purpose in this earth.
Betrayal is brutal. No one deserves what you did and continue to do by twisting that knife around still. Move on, leave me alone. I finally accept my life, those loved ones in it and a good man who knows how to handle a good woman!