Diastasis recti/abdominal separation help: Exercises for a flat tummy. Great article with advice on how to tighten your abs after birth. God Bless and love your special "gift from Heaven", Anice aka Yoga Mama
When people get divorced and remarry children aren't separated from either sides of the family by law. Children have step parents they love. As in adoption children are confused by having two sets of parents love multiplies.
Parenting After Divorce: How to Cope When Missing Your Child