Keep Calm & Help Stop Paternity Fraud! Truth is that not all women are honest and not all men are deadbeats! This guy was told he was the father and turns out he is not. The "real" father knows he's the father and has even met the child. But this guy is still obligated to pay child support & everyone knows 'he is NOT the father.' I know every situation is different but the bottom line is married or not there should be a paternity test when the parents names go on the birth certificate!