Don't rescue your child from a challenge. Teach them how to face it. From Catalyst: I'd say this depends on whether the challenge is one that the child has chosen him or herself, or whether it was just a requirement.
To my son, Happy Birthday to you! May this year find you all the happiness you wish for and may your dreams come true! I am proud of you and love you with all my heart! Love your dearest mother Martina.