When I was pregnant with our second baby, all of that hoopla seemed a little unnecessary, but friends and family wanted to celebrate all the same. In comes the baby sprinkle. Yup, it may not be the fu (Party Top Families)
17 Things to Do Before Your Second Baby is Born - a little too focused on the girl/boy stuff, but the first half of the list is helpful! Just don't reuse bottle nipples and pacis - they deteriorate over time!