My narc gets a checkmark for very single item on this list. It is really hard to accept that I stayed for so long. That is what bothers me the most. check mark GPS-Grace Power Strength: Common Phrases Spoken By (and signs of) A Narcissistic Sociopath
3 & 4 among many, many other signs not listed, was enough for me to walk away. Thankfully I got out at the tail end of the idealization stage. the devalue stage was kicking in. Six months of living with this twisted man was FAR too long.
Sadly this totally defines my SIL/godson! Doubt therapy can fix this, but perhaps God can. My advice though to those around these people - self preservation dictates, get away as fast as you can and stay away, far, far away!