I can and will help, but you'll need to put in honest effort or you'll never make any progress. The climbing never stops. You can only chose in what direction and in what way you climb, but the only time you stop is when you die.
(Sorry, not sorry for the F-Bombs!) This statement STOPPED me in my tracks when reading by Jen Sincero last night. Literally STOPPED me. I cannot TELL you how many times I used THIS exact statement "fucked up.