3 & 4 among many, many other signs not listed, was enough for me to walk away. Thankfully I got out at the tail end of the idealization stage. the devalue stage was kicking in. Six months of living with this twisted man was FAR too long.
A similar envision of my parents growing old together. I love how the portrait could look so lovely with its choices of gentle, soft and warm colours. A painting by David Hockney. David Hockney - "My Parents"