I get so many messages from women who are single that don't know how just embrace their singleness. The truth is, if you can't be happy alone you won't be happy when you're not single. One of the most empowering things I did, was go get coffee alone, shop alone, and go on trips alone. You grow from these experiences and you will truly understand who you are as an individual. You'll never have to struggle with getting lost in a relationship if you embrace your own company.
I said this to the guy I dated before my husband. He said he thought he might be involved with someone else. I told him to to figure it out and leave me out of it. It worked out for me, but he's still single.