"I know you are scared. And I know forever scares you. But isn't it all worth it? Isn't the adventure the best part of anything? You like to be dangerous so take a chance on me. I'll show you I'm worth it". I wish he thought this way
See how that doesnt work? The message we wind up sending is that our behavior our words and possibly the direction our life takes are dependent upon what someone else does or says. We are saying Im not going to do my part if you dont do yours.