That's easier said than done sometimes. I have an insane amount of chatter going on. "I'm not good enough", "I don't deserve ....*insert whatever*", "I'm an Asshole" omg soul DON'T make me do healing for the third time today!
Naaaaahhhhhh !!!! Never... They wouldn't be friends then - would they ? Don't you get what friends are? Is that coz you don't have a pose? Why is that I wonder? Don't you wonder? Look at yourself !!!! Take a good hard look !
How can you possibly say no? You know and understand that your friend has been stressed out and needs cheering up, and you'd really like to help them as you hate seeing people sad. And if you don't go just so you can relax, does that mean you're selfish? How can you choose what to do? Take a read
That "fuck you" "if you insist" or it's twin "Fuck me!" "Say please," Never fail to amuse me. I have a simple sense of humour!