You are responsible for your behavior no matter what you have been through or are currently going through. If you use your situation as an excuse to mistreat others, you're shallow, completely self-absorbed & bitter.
How you treat people shows your true self and character. I may not be the most educated person and I KNOW I'm far from "cool", especially in the minds of Hunter and Blake ;-) But what I am proud of most about myself is not having it in me to be judgmental
Especially right after sending them a song like the FL/GA line song holy and calling and telling the person that is how you feel about him but could never explain. Then within 2 months in bed with someone else when he never changed how he treated you. What kind of person does that to someone????