Stop try to change someone who doesn't what to change. Stop giving chances to someone who abuse your forgiveness . Stop walking back to the place where you heart run from . Stop trusting their words and ignoring their actions. Stop breaking you own heart.
Sometimes closure looks differently than we imagine it. Sometimes we don't get all of the answer we're seeking. Sometimes it's not wrapped in a pretty bow with two people who amicably say "this is for the better.
Blood doesnt make family. Id choose my friends over some family members any day. Its about people whose made the effort to see you and spend time with you. Blood doesnt mean shit. its just dna nothing more. My opinion, thats the way I look at it.
Don't let someone who did you wrong make you think there's something wrong with you. Don't devalue yourself because they didn't value you. Know your worth. If you have a couple solid people in your life you can trust, you're golden.
I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings, even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't guarantee that others will be good people. You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person.