Dear Dad "Sometimes I feel sorry for you because you had a bad upbringing, but then I remember you are an adult, and you make your own bad decisions in life. A bad upbringing is not an excuse to be a bad parent.
Anyone can have a child and call themselves a parent. A real parent is someone who puts that child above their own selfish needs and wants. People shouldn't pretend they are the best parent when someone else is raising their child