If the relationship doesn't make you a better person, then you are with the wrong one. MOST DEFINITELY pay attention to how you can be "changed" by another person. relationships that are good, keep you good, in every way
I need to remember this. If you find yourself a bit irritated or overwhelmed, it's a sign that you're spending less time with GOD and more time with this world. Through God's eyes. Spend time with Him!
"The true mark of maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back." // (I don't want to label what "the true mark of maturity" is, but this idea of empathy vs revenge is important to me.