Gray area rape is rape. If you are forced to agree, it is still rape.<<saying being pressured to consent to sex isn't rape is like saying the cashier participated in the robbery because he gave the money to the robber when threatened with a gun.
You can still be a feminist and be a bad person, ie racist transphobic homophobic evt. You cant separate yourself from these people who share similar beliefs. The same you can't say when a Christian does bad things that they werent Christian
Misandrist is not Feminism.This is why so many people are scared of "feminism." Not because they hate women but because they fear man haters. Some self proclaimed feminists really do hate men, and that's not the original definition of feminism.