A Verbal Abuser Defined Me: I’m No Longer His Opinion of Me - A verbal abuser wants you to think you are what he says you are and nothing more. You are his to mold, he thinks. Don't be his opinion of you.
Narcissists will provoke you and verbally attack you. When you react to their abuse and defend yourself, they'll turn either rageful or play the victim in front of others to make you look bad. They are con artists who are spiteful and revengeful.
No pretending needed ! We can all see through your BS and facade ♀️♀️♀️♀️
Narcissists thrive on drama. If things are too quiet, they will make up a tragedy, instigate a family argument, fake an illness & the list goes on. If they are really desperate, they may even threaten suicide just to get attention!