Relationships last longer when no body knows your business. ~ plus it's not like it will be kept a secret.people you don't even know will know all about you and what goes on in your relationship, like my bff for example :p
And secrets lead to arguments. There is no winning. I don't trust anyone anymore anyway. People lie or they just tell you what you want to hear. My life is simple now. I need simple. Totally agree with this pinner.
One of the many placement ideas I have in mind for my daddy's death date. ( this one would be nice if I get the birth and death date, depending on how the date looks in Roman numerals.) I could even get my dads initials with it in a pretty font.