Philippa Perry

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Psychotherapist Philippa Perry offers some essential advice to partners, parents and all people in isolation to help them through the stresses of social distancing with relationships intact
'Your child is not a project to perfect.' Psychotherapist Philippa Perry on what parents need to know

Video

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What Every Parent Should Know with Philippa Perry - Dr Rangan Chatterjee

Podcasts

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BBC Radio 4 - Woman's Hour - What you wish your parents had known – five parenting tips from psychotherapist Philippa Perry
Philippa Perry, author of The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read, on simple steps to parenting. How to support children. Who is Philippa Perry?
Philippa Perry: the most important thing for parents to know

Articles

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The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will be Glad That You Did) - Philippa Perry #TheBookYouWishYourParentsHadRead #PhilippaPerry #NVRnorthampton #RecommendedReading #NonviolentResistance #TraumaInformed #TowardsTraumaInformedPractice

Books

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The Truth about Children Who Lie - BBC Sounds
Great Lives - Series 49 - Philippa Perry on the Italian educator Maria Montessori - BBC Sounds
Woman's Hour - Parenting: Philippa Perry - BBC Sounds

Radio

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“…behind behaviour you’ll find the feelings.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry
“A child needs warmth and acceptance, physical touch, your physical presence, plus boundaries, understanding, play with people of all ages, soothing experiences and a lot of your attention and your time.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry

Quotes

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“…behind behaviour you’ll find the feelings.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry Challenging Behaviors, Connectedness, Northamptonshire, Foster Care, Positive Change, Therapeutic, Perry
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“…behind behaviour you’ll find the feelings.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry
NVRnorthampton
NVRnorthampton
“A child needs warmth and acceptance, physical touch, your physical presence, plus boundaries, understanding, play with people of all ages, soothing experiences and a lot of your attention and your time.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry Love Plus, Physical Touch, Need You
NVRnorthampton - Nonviolent Resistance | Northamptonshire
“A child needs warmth and acceptance, physical touch, your physical presence, plus boundaries, understanding, play with people of all ages, soothing experiences and a lot of your attention and your time.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry
NVRnorthampton
NVRnorthampton
“If you treat your child's sadness, anger and fears not as negatives to be corrected but as opportunities to learn more about them and to connect with them, then you will deepen your bond with them..” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry Precious Children, Sadness
NVRnorthampton - Nonviolent Resistance | Northamptonshire
“If you treat your child's sadness, anger and fears not as negatives to be corrected but as opportunities to learn more about them and to connect with them, then you will deepen your bond with them..” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry
NVRnorthampton
NVRnorthampton
“It’s not the rupture that is so important , it is the repair that matters.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry Unconditional
NVRnorthampton - Nonviolent Resistance | Northamptonshire
“It’s not the rupture that is so important , it is the repair that matters.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry
NVRnorthampton
NVRnorthampton
“Children, like the rest of us, tend to do as they are done to. Being sensitive to feelings and following rupture with repair is always better than stand-offs, battlegrounds and winning and losing.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry When Us, Inevitable
“Children, like the rest of us, tend to do as they are done to. Being sensitive to feelings and following rupture with repair is always better than stand-offs, battlegrounds and winning and losing.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry
NVRnorthampton
NVRnorthampton
“We must allow all feelings, even if we find them inconvenient.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry Emotions, Feelings
“We must allow all feelings, even if we find them inconvenient.” - Philippa Perry ——————————————————————— *** NVR can help *** #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #DevelopmentalTrauma #KinshipCare #FosterCare #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #Connection #Connectedness #RelationalRepair #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PhilippaPerry
“People - and especially children - act out in inappropriate, inconvenient ways because they haven’t found alternative, more effective, more convenient ways of expressing their feelings and needs.” - Philippa Perry  #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR  #SystemicApproach #NewAuthorityThinking #Connection #RelationalRepair #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #CompassionateAction  #ConnectedChildRaising #TraumaResponsive #PhilippaPerry #Quotes Art, Gentle Parenting, Alternative, Parents, Emotional Development, People, Counseling, Parenting
“People - and especially children - act out in inappropriate, inconvenient ways because they haven’t found alternative, more effective, more convenient ways of expressing their feelings and needs.” - Philippa Perry #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NVR #SystemicApproach #NewAuthorityThinking #Connection #RelationalRepair #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #CompassionateAction #ConnectedChildRaising #TraumaResponsive #PhilippaPerry #Quotes
“...when there is a problem, do not just concentrate on the child  do not think the problem just lies with them. Look at your relationship   what’s happening between you.  That’s where you’ll find your answer.” - Philippa Perry  #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NonviolentResistance #NVR  #SystemicApproach #NewAuthorityThinking #Development #Connection #RelationalRepair #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #ConnectedChildRaising #PhilippaPerry Parent Support, Family Bonding, Family Matters
“...when there is a problem, do not just concentrate on the child do not think the problem just lies with them. Look at your relationship what’s happening between you. That’s where you’ll find your answer.” - Philippa Perry #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NonviolentResistance #NVR #SystemicApproach #NewAuthorityThinking #Development #Connection #RelationalRepair #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #ConnectedChildRaising #PhilippaPerry
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'Your child is not a project to perfect.' Psychotherapist Philippa Perry on what parents need to know
“To understand and validate a child’s feelings is invaluable to them.” - Philippa Perry  #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #APVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NonviolentResistance #NVR  #SystemicApproach #NewAuthorityThinking #Connection #RelationalRepair #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #CompassionateAction  #ConnectedChildRaising #TraumaResponsive #PhilppaPerry #PhilippaPerryQuotes Mother Daughter Quotes, Inspiring Things, Parenthood, Teaching Kids
“To understand and validate a child’s feelings is invaluable to them.” - Philippa Perry #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #APVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NonviolentResistance #NVR #SystemicApproach #NewAuthorityThinking #Connection #RelationalRepair #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #CompassionateAction #ConnectedChildRaising #TraumaResponsive #PhilppaPerry #PhilippaPerryQuotes
“Children are our most important resource. We should invest time in them, be present for them, enter their  world and let them be part of ours.” - Philippa Perry   #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #APVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NonviolentResistance #NVR  #SystemicApproach #NewAuthorityThinking #Connection #RelationalRepair #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #CompassionateAction  #ConnectedChildRaising #TraumaResponsive #PhilppaPerry #PhilippaPerryQuotes Organized Mom, Presents For Mom
“Children are our most important resource. We should invest time in them, be present for them, enter their world and let them be part of ours.” - Philippa Perry #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #APVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption #SEND #ACEs #NVRnorthampton #NonviolentResistance #NVR #SystemicApproach #NewAuthorityThinking #Connection #RelationalRepair #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #CompassionateAction #ConnectedChildRaising #TraumaResponsive #PhilppaPerry #PhilippaPerryQuotes
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