This is quite true. In I there's a point in time where we have to chose ace potable I. Society or yourself. That there's a point and time where your mind pulls two different direction. Where you try to decide to let yourself go, or keep it all inside.
Some of the strongest people I know have gone through many dark times in their life and emerged with powerful new perspective and appreciation for life. Their hard times they bear as a gift that made them who they are.