One time when I did this my pen flew across the room and smacked my friend in the face. I had the hardest time holding back my giggles while she stared at me so confused as to why I threw my pen at her.
There's a good passivity in life, one you learn to exercise with time. If people want you in their life, after you've shown and done your part, they will make it clear to you. Simplicity is always an active positive ingredient in human relationships.
I don't want a perfect boyfriend, I just want someone to act silly with, someone who treats me well and loves being with me more than anything. This is exactly what I tell people I want in a perfect boyfriend. My perfect isn't perfect