This is so me. One of the benefits to being my friend is that you can come to my house in pjs, no makeup, looking like crap and I won't judge you. because I too will be in pjs, no makeup, looking like crap.
This is why my mom (our Troop Leader for Troop took our Girl Scouts to a condo in Destin each year. She made it verrrrry clear, "We don't camp. If you want to camp, there is another troop that camps." ONLY one girl chose the camping!