Just be smart enough to know when “enough is enough.” You can’t complain about somebody crossing the line if you fail to set the boundaries. You can’t complain about somebody wasting your time when you didn’t require them to earn it. Sometimes you just have to let go. Not everything is meant to be a “forever” kind of thing. You have to be honest with yourself even if it hurts.... LEARN from it. GROW out of it. Be DONE with it. — Rob Hill Sr.
If your pursuit of perfection and control is bigger than your concern for people and relationships - you have the symptom of unhealthy control. That is a heart issue that needs to be dealt with the Lord. -- from a broadcast from Family Life Today