Sadly this totally defines my SIL/godson! Doubt therapy can fix this, but perhaps God can. My advice though to those around these people - self preservation dictates, get away as fast as you can and stay away, far, far away!
Narcissists stay "friends" with their ex so people can perceive the narcissist to be such a "great catch". The narcissist is in fact a phony, washed up, nothing but drama, loser. All of the "demand" for the narcissist is contrived and manufactured. No one wants these needy, attention whore, entitled, washed up, overbearing, domineering, control freaks. Do not be deceived. -- Photo provided by Gena da Silva (narcissistic_abuse_lifecoach) on Instagram