Where we find ourselves on a map changes the course of everything, and whether it's literal and full of pushpins and highways and mountains, or an emotional one, you better believe that life is an exercise in mapmaking.
"A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it just blooms." --- Everything is you and God thing, and there is nobody else involved. So comparing or competing is just waste of time. Keep focusing on yourself, focusing of loving yourself.