No, people with the worst pasts do end up with creating the best futures! If we use our past as our strength, we can have a beautiful present and future life. It's all about mindset and using your past to create a better future!
When God knows ready for the responsibility of commitment, reveal the person under the right circumstances. waste your time wishing. Grow and be ready, see God will give you a life story far better than you could ever dream of!
Internal locus of control is when each individual focuses on himself and his own actions and how everything around him is affected by his own decisions. These people dont make excuses nor blame it on others they take responsibility for their actions.