Words of the tongue.I like to think of it like this - Every word you speak is like a seed.it will take root one way or the other.speak positive and encouraging words. Build others up rather than tearing them down.
So true. Awkward when your on a date and the boy treats you nice, but then talks bad about the waiter/waitress or the people at the table next to you. Not to mention I actually am that server sometimes!