When a person insults, discredits, ot degrades you, always remember: it is a reflection of themselves, a battle within that they are fighting and portraying outward to the world. It is not your battle to be faught. Instead of reacting, send them love. Love will heal you both
No one compares to you. I know people always say your first love is the person you compare everyone to, but maybe they've got it all wrong. Maybe the person you compare everyone to isn't your first love, but your true love. Your soul mate.