be in charge and choose happiness and joy.it is a choice whether people accept that idea or not. It is all in perspective.and there is always someone in worse circumstances than ours.and that alone is a reason to embrace whatever happiness we have.
Some people are always living in the future and thinking when they have all that stuff they want they will be happy. I'm just happy with life in the moment. You acclimate to "stuff" very quickly and are again unhappy. Live for today.
the only way to succeed is to not worry about what anyone else is doing. free your mind, live your life for yourself, get rid of everyone's expectations what you should or should not do.let go and live for yourself and your own goals.