"Accept the fact that some people didn't intend to let you down. Their best is just less than you expected." ~Thelma Davis <-- Never thought of it like that before. Wow, that really reframes one's perspective.
the way you treat your wife, husband, sister, brother. in front of your friends gives them permission to treat her or him the same way. So treat yourself AND your loved ones with the utmost love and respect in front of others