Your are your 'selfish' years. It's a decade to immerse yourself in every single thing possible. Be selfish with your time and all the aspects of you. Tinker with shit, travel, explore, love a lot, love a little and never touch the ground.
I don't beat around the bush. Whether friend or foe, I can be brutally upfront + honest about anything under the sun. And it's true that I can be selfish in relationships. I'm more of a taker for emotional needs + a giver for physical ones