Don't be the one whose bitterness, smallness, and insecurities spill over into other peoples lives. Don't ever let others make you feel like a victim. Sensitivity and a big heart that is easily broken does not equal victim!
I truly believe this especially as I've gotten older. You can never truly know if you will actually end marrying the person your dating, but if you go into a relationship knowing you wont marry them, it's sort of pointless -Amen! I live by this quote.