Not sure of this is true but it sometimes feel to be. Emotional neglect is a trauma. That explains why being ignored hurts SO much! I vow to make it a goal to NOT ignore other people so that they do not feel this way.
This is what our Southern mothers taught us to do. If anyone is being ugly to you, you DO NOT stoop to their level. You "Kill them with kindness". By the way, that doesn't always work. But, it makes your Mama happy.
A woman can always tell if a man loves her by how much time he is willing to invest. Money spent is meaningless, but time spent is priceless. I don't want him to spend money on me just being together, that's all I want