"At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. So, you can waste your life drawing lines, or you can live your life crossing them." I'm gonna cross some
The fact that as a human we expect things. The good and the bad. But we find that we are taken aback when either comes. Remember that things are better in the end. If it's not okay then it's not the end.